Scared!

It is a good idea to live your life - one moment at a time. It works for me. Not always though.
It works only when i am naturally happy and not when am scared that if i dont act - things would take an ugly turn. Fear is not good.
Let me explain. If your search for a new job is based on the fear that you would not get a raise or a promotion in your present job - you would act fast--as if there was fire below your tail. The problem is not whether you did something or how fast you acted, it lies with how you did. Your search would be a job that pays well and not really whether it would make your happier.
Same for relationships.
Dont love people because if you dont, they would go away. Love them because you feel nicer if they are around. Powerful thought this.